Kinds of relationships
A relationship usually expresses the bond and intimacy between two (or sometimes more) people. What intimacy means is different in every relationship.
There is no general definition of a good relationship.
People can have different kinds of relationships and ways of living. For example:
- steady relationship;
- marriage;
- living together or not living in the same house, sometimes living a long distance away from each other;
- single;
- heterosexual or homosexual relationship;
- relationship with multiple partners (having different partners at the same time);
- casual sex contacts.
A relationship can be a combination of these kinds of relationships and ways of living and can develop from one kind of relationship to another.
You can choose which kind of relationship is best for you. If you are in a relationship, you and your partner can talk to each other about your feelings and expectations. Find out together what suits you both.
Love and sex in a relationship
Some relationships are based on love between both partners, other relationships are not. In some cases love can grow within a relationship. The feeling of love can also change over time.
A relationship can be sexual, but it does not have to be. You and your partner decide if, when and how you have sex. Forcing someone to have sex in a relationship is called partner violence. It is forbidden by law.
If you have unprotected sex with various partners, you may have an increased risk of STIs. Use a condom to protect yourself and your partner.
Making a relationship work
Relationships can change over time. Talking to each other is often important in a relationship. Usually it is also necessary to invest time and energy in your relationship to make it work.
Finding things you have in common often helps both partners to feel positive about the relationship.
People can also have difficulties or problems in their relationship. Solving a problem together can make you feel closer to each other. Ask for professional help if you cannot solve it together. Sometimes the problems cannot be solved, and the relationship ends.